Date: 5/13/2008 9:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 62849
I can't tell you what you want to hear. I just can't. It takes two, absolutely giving 100% of what they have to make a relationship work.  |
Date: 5/13/2008 9:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 16865
(((HUGS))) I don't need to know the whole story... I am there for you  |
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Date: 5/13/2008 9:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 62849
I remember how hard it is to go through things like this. Unfortunately, the only thing that will truly make everything better is time- but with that, fortunately time will make everything better. I know it's hard to see it right now, but you'll get through it. Don't let "love" crush your heart- it's not supposed to do that. |
Date: 5/13/2008 9:24:00 AM
From Authorid: 28848
I'm sorry you are hurting. Hugs.  |
Date: 5/13/2008 9:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 56359
I’ve felt this way fairly recently. And let me say that you should take beags advice, and don’t let love crush your heart. I also know for a fact that time heals the wound. It took a while, and I was seriously out of it. I didn’t want to do anything. But I’m so much better now. You know, once you do start to come out of this terrible state your in, everything is going to be so much better, and brighter then it is now because you will be comparing it to the heartache you had been feeling. For instance, you say it’s raining where you are, well, once you begin to feel better (and you will) that rain isn’t going to be depressing; it’s going to be wonderful. And, like I said, I can say this with a lot of confidence because I just went through it not that long ago. Furthermore, I know I don’t know you, but like you said in the post, we’re all family here, therefore, I want to help anyway I can. If you need to talk, you can PM me:)  |
Date: 5/13/2008 9:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 21903
I am not completely aware of the situation and I will def. not trash talk him because of that (and per your request); trash talk never fixed anything anyways. I do hate that you are in such pain...I know what kind you are talking about: its the kind where you cry so hard that your heart quite literally hurts, right? I wish I could take that away from you, but I know you are stronger than even you realize and no matter what the end result is, you WILL be okay. I want only the best for you, so I hope that things work out in the best possible way for the long-run. We are most def. here for you, so just come to us anytime you need that support; I feel the same way about my USM family...I know they are here for me just as they are for you. Keep us updated, hon, and try to hold your head up high and keep yourself busy today, as hard as I know that will be for you. *HUGS*  |
Date: 5/13/2008 10:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 14909
Heart pain is I think the worse pain. I hope your heart heals soon. You are way to sweet to be going through this.  |
Date: 5/13/2008 11:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 28190
Sometimes the person we fall in love with, isn't the right person for us. I've been in your place before, and it utterly stinks. It will get better. Time heals all wounds, and as cliche as that is, it is very true. We have to kiss our share of frogs before we find our prince or princess. Heartache is one of the most trying, painful life lessons there is, but it does make you stronger. If you let it, it can even teach you a few things too. It's almost necessary to go through, unfortunately, so that WE can recognize the really good, and differenciate it from those unworthy. Your heart will mend, sweetheart. Your tears will fade, and the memory, while it will always be a little painful, will lessen. I know you probably don't see it now, but give yourself time, and you will. Keep your chin up sweety, ok? You are a strong, worthy, and awesome person. I'll add you to my thoughts and prayers. *huge huge hugs*  |
Date: 5/13/2008 11:43:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61847
Thank you all. I'm doing a bit better along with all of your help. It still hurts, look at his side of the bed just makes my heart ache. I slept in his shirt last night, for what little time I did sleep. It still smells like him. *sigh*  |
Date: 5/13/2008 11:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 64414
(((luv n hugs)))  |
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Date: 5/13/2008 3:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
I think it should be just the two of you living together. JMO of course. Good luck hun. I really hope everything works out for you. |
Date: 5/13/2008 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}  |
Date: 5/13/2008 6:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 27826
Hey, Ash. I'm sorry you are in pain and I hope everything works out for the best! If you need someone to talk to or just need to vent, I am just a msg away.  |
Date: 5/16/2008 5:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 21764
*hugs*  |
