Date: 11/17/2008 7:03:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 28848
Ta I hired an attorney and filed for divorce, which was final this past January. but otherwise no.  |
Date: 11/17/2008 7:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 10657
Oh, okay I guess I was having a dull blonde moment  |
Date: 11/17/2008 9:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 21764
aw *big hugs sweetie* I hope things work out for you..  |
Date: 11/17/2008 9:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 63241
You're right. This cheapskate is willing to pay a lawyer to save himself some money...or so he thinks. I hope you get a compassionate judge who throws the book at him!!  |
Date: 11/17/2008 10:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
Geez, I feel for ya. My ex was like that. He wanted to get custody of our kids so he wouldn't have to pay child support, and he could collect from me. WEll, it ended very badly for him. I could prove he was deadbeat and a wife beater...he wasn't expecting that to come out before the judge. And, when it did, his own lawyer got mad and disowned him because he had lied to her. He got another lawyer and kept hauling me into court, and finally the judge got so mad at him that he told him if he didn't quit harassing me he was going to throw him in jail. LOL!  |
Date: 11/17/2008 12:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 64637
I believe if the kids are over 10 (?) I think that they have the right to state who they want to live with.I think that I would tell him to bring it on! He isn't going to get anywhere with any sane judge, he is just going to waste more money, especially if he already owes 2 years back child support and the kids are mentally mature enough to state where they want to live. Judges take into consideration what the children think, and they are more willing to give you favor, simply because you are the mother, and I believe that most judges will side with you because you are their primary caregiver. I will pray for you sweetie, but I really don't think you have anything to worry about. He is just trying to cause you more grief, and he is being childish and selfish. God Bless!  |
Date: 11/17/2008 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
What a fool he must be there is no way he can get custody of your children because he could not reach you by phone for a few days especially since it was an error with your phone service. He has to be a huge creep. He will get laughed out of any courtroom if and I doubt it will get that far. I hope he gtes in trouble for not paying support. What a jerk  |
Date: 11/17/2008 12:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 21435
It is my opinion that people who are responsible for creating a child are equally responsible for that child's welfare. Sounds to me like your ex has had a free ride for two years. Time to pay the fare. Don't lighten up on him. Use the system. Take care of you, lady.  |
Date: 11/17/2008 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 36901
From what I've read over the years about different things he's put you guys through, he's just going to make an idiot out of himself if he takes you to court. Hopefully, he's just bluffing to try and get to you. Either way, I'm sure everything will work out (can't see anyone giving him custody of anything). What your kids have to say about him alone will tell the court all they need to know if it comes to that.  |
Date: 11/17/2008 3:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 14909
He's a big loser. He won't get anywhere with that, lawyer or not. Don't worry about it, he's just mad he'll get over it. He'll just have to buck up like I did and pay that support, after all they are his kids and he should support.  |
Date: 11/17/2008 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 21903
that is pretty low. Plus he is an utter spaz for getting upset you didn't answer your phone all weekend...hello, he's your EX! lol. I'm pretty sure the court won't award him custody b/c you didn't answer his phone calls all weekend. Sorry for all the unnecessary drama in your life!  |
