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Serious talks and people on heavy meds...bad combo. ---------- Frecks

  Author:  21903  Category:(Discussion) Created:(11/17/2008 6:35:00 PM)
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Sooooo....I learned a valuable lesson: Don't ever attempt a serious conversation with someone when they are on a heavy dose of medication. They don't know what they are saying.

Okay, here's what happened: My boyfriend threw his back out yesterday and had to take a pain killer and muscle relaxer the docter prescribed. Well, me being me (the genious I am) decided that I just had to have a serious talk with him before I left town yesterday. I had basically asked if he would be willing to move a little ways outside the city to be with me if I couldn't get a job IN the city. Well he basically said he didn't know if I'd be worth that...in his medicine head kind of way because he wanted to be with his family in the city. I was give-or-take apalled by that. (granted, I'm leaving out LOTS of details of the conversation)

So I got home last night trying to make sense of the conversation and that part that "I am not worth it" had me fuming all night last night and all day today. So I am pacing my apartment preparing my speech: "Would you rather be single and in the city with your family or with me and a half hour drive from your family?" and "If you'd be happier single, let me know now, I'm not wasting my time anymore," or the ever-so-popular "You're just not worth it." So here I am ready to let her rip, and I preface the conversation with reminding him that he told me I wasnt' worth it yesterday and he said "I never said that," so I remind him of a few details of the conversation and put the comment into context for him and he is actually quite suprised by the comment stating that "of course you're worth it."

I was a little shocked by this, so I went ahead and asked him if he'd rather be single in the city or with me and not...to which he replied he'd rather be with me. He apologized numerous times that I was so upset by that...what happened was he was on WAY too many meds to follow the conversation very well yesterday.

Seriously? I thought that someone on a painkiller and muscle relaxer would be in their right mind?

So I wallered in unnecessary drama all day all because I tried to talk to someone who was way to drugged up to be in their right mind in the first place! Guess I had that coming....

...lesson learned!

 

 

 

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Date: 11/17/2008 6:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 10657    LOL, can I laugh now??
You know what I think already however, piece of advice never have a serious talk with someone unless, they are fully functional you never know what meds will do what to whom
Also, never have that talk on the phone it's best to do it in person after all you are both adults:=P
  
Date: 11/17/2008 6:46:00 PM  ( Chatmin-FF )   Yeah...that was the whole point in talking when I was in Louisville this past weekend...and Sunday rolled around and I hadn't talked, so I just went for it...though Sunday he was on meds!! lol. You can def laugh b/c it was just a bad choice on my part! That conversation could have waited. I am quite sure I learned my lesson!
Date: 11/17/2008 6:53:00 PM  ( Admin )   
So was he drugged when he said you wern't worth it or when he said you were.

Lol.. Just kiddn.. Liz.. course you are worth it.

-Rad.. Slap..
Date: 11/17/2008 7:00:00 PM  ( Chatmin-FF )   lol! Quit bein so facetious there raddy!
Date: 11/17/2008 7:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    I was in the wrong clothes just then! hehe  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 61847    And you didn't tell me?! Shame on you!!! I love you, glad it worked out. *hug*  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:12:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    yeah...it was a bit much to text once I got off the phone w/him tonight....I didn't wanna tell you earlier and have you thinkin I was an idiot for staying with him after that! lol. You are def the best though b/c I did almost tell you....probably would have been more of a phonecall conversation than a text one though! lol.  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 20750    Awwwwwwww sweetie you are well worth it! He knows that! LOL poor guy!  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:20:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    aww, thanks MG! I do give him a hard time a lot!  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 64365    ...it's really heart rending to be told or to even get the feeling that you aren't worth it. I'm so glad you decided to talk to him to clear it up. Stuff like that should be discussed, especially if you feel something's amiss. HUGS  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:26:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    yes, Nani, it sure did hurt. I felt sad, then enraged and barely even grasped on to logic long enough to be able to calmly approach the situation to clear it up...I was SO ready to explode! Love n Hugs Nani!!  
Date: 11/17/2008 7:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    My boyfriend is usually the opposite- usually he gets into these "I love you," "I want to marry you," "You're the best thing that ever happened to me" deals when he's on pain meds, drunk, or generally high on something or another.  
Date: 11/17/2008 8:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 23075    Speaking from experience Nope those two do NOT go together. Believe me I've been asked some questions, and the one time I had to take both pain killer and relaxers beforea medical test. Well I tell ya...my friend took me home, I don't even remember getting home, I do remember though looking the paramedic up and down saying, I thought you were cute, but quite frankly your ugly and homely. And then waiting at a stop sign watching the car ahead of me going to turn and not signal. Ya it was a police officer, so my friend got the van stopped, and I got out of the car walked up to the cruisers windows, knocked, he rolled it down. I pipe up and say....what you're special so you don't have to signal, since when did they make cruisers with no signals. My freind walked up to the officer and said, it's okay, she's on drugs...................that I remember, I do not remember however, ordeirng three panzerottie's and then pretty much inhaling them that night and going to bed. It was awful.  
Date: 11/17/2008 8:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 21435    Hiya, Lizzle For the record, I think that you are just the sweetest young lady. Anyway...I had a co-worker who did lots of vicotin and muscle relaxers. He'd start conversations and just about the time I'd get really cranked-up, he'd nod out on me and I'd end up talking to myself...hehe...Later, he'd ask: "Hey, man. Where'd you go?" and I'd tell him that he fell asleep on me and he'd say, "No, I didn't man. I wouldn't do that." Then, I'd ask him what was I talking about and he couldn't tell me. So, yes, you are correct. It is virtually impossible to hold serious conversation with someone on that combination of meds. Loved your telling, lady. Write on......  
Date: 11/17/2008 9:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 7830    LOL..you're so cute.  
Date: 11/17/2008 10:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 64593    Oh goodness. I would have been fuming too! I am glad it was all only because he was drugged up, though. Thanks for sharing.
Date: 11/18/2008 6:06:00 AM  From Authorid: 15677    I cant take muscle relaxers they mess with my head an make me sleep for days. They affect everyone differently. And of course your worth it!!!  
Date: 11/18/2008 9:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 57079    Oh yea. When I was on heavy painkillers, no one tried to have a serious talk with me or anything, but when we did have conversations, apparently I was hilarious because I was saying the strangest things and didn't even remember it once I was off the meds lol. I'm glad everything worked out well for you   
Date: 11/18/2008 9:51:00 AM  From Authorid: 21764    aw, well glad everything got worked out there. i remember being on pain killers for my ankle.. it was fuuuuuuuuuuun. lol   
Date: 11/18/2008 10:35:00 AM  From Authorid: 18155    Cute story. Thanks for sharing.  
Date: 11/18/2008 10:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 4144    LOL! that was great! you should have heard some of the stuff my mom said when she was hopped up on pain meds after knee surgery!! i video taped her and showed it to her later......yes, i am the evil daughter!!  
Date: 11/18/2008 1:30:00 PM  From Authorid: 62901    The best time to talk and get truth is when someone is drunk! lol My hubby doesn't "say" romantic things to me much or express his feelings by talking. He just shows me he loves me... but it never fails, when we go see our fave local band play and he gets drunk... that's when he finally starts "talking" and I love it! lol

Glad to know that he didn't mean it though and that he's sorry! *hugs*
  
Date: 11/18/2008 1:31:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    OMG Dolphin, so true! Nick gets all lovey sometimes when he is drunk too! He says the sweetest things!  
Date: 11/18/2008 1:32:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    Thanks for the comments all! I am glad it gave some of you a good laugh; Paddy...you crack me up!  
Date: 11/18/2008 1:33:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    Aww, thanks Kronk and Appi! Too sweet!  
Date: 11/18/2008 1:55:00 PM  From Authorid: 10657    It totally gave me a good laugh I had to book mark it well, mainly because you wouldn't let me go:
I
Told
You
So.....

Always, listen to your elders they know better:=P
  
Date: 11/18/2008 2:20:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    LoL, its worth laughing at now; fair enough Angi! You did tell me so!   
Date: 12/1/2008 4:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 11176    OH Liz that sounds confusing, and so familar  
Date: 12/2/2008 7:47:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 21903    lol, I def. don't recommend it!!  

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